In one of the training sessions, there were participants who asked: “I often have high motivation, but not rarely the motivation is gone. How to motivate yourself? “. Indeed the motivation also should the wheel of life, which at times above but sometimes below. Required is so that we can motivate themselves to the SPIRIT.
Why motivate yourself important? Because when You fail or are facing challenges. Not forever people surrounding is able to help you. There is nothing that you can rely on besides yourselves. That can only determine your own destiny is yourself.
People usually lose motivation because of three things: losing self confidence, lose focus and lose direction. For that, you need to be confident that you will succeed, the focus again to what fact you want and wake up back where the direction You are heading to. But surely to desist and it takes effort to change and came back excited! The question is how do you get EXCITED again? How to build self motivation? The following tips that you can apply:
1. Find the reason
Search for reasons why You should desist. Search for sources of motivation. Discover the greatest benefits why you should get it. This will be making You terinspirasri to desist and continues despite the many hurdles ahead of us.
2. Have a dream. Dream BIG
The reason You do something can be a source of motivation. But that’s not enough. You have to realize in a big dream. Imagine a few more years we’ll be what. Imagine the world in the days to come. This will direct you. Like a football player, you have to know the scoring GOAL against which. The dream must be a great that inspire you, but it should be realistic, You are able to achieve it.
3. Continue to learn
“Stay hungry, stay foolish” says Steve Jobs. You not only need the keingianan alone, but also requires a sense of “hungry” to get something. This hunger will be felt when you get more challenge. This makes You continue to learn from what you naturally and there are keinginin to go back fighting.
How do You get a sense of the “hungry”? This is related to the reason You do things and dream big plays an important role here (the first and second Points). If you’ve felt “tired”, You will not be motivated to do something again. But the reason and dream big You will inspire more return of hunger.
4. Defeat yourself
Membandingakn You with another person is a thing that will inhibit motivation. Although initially will increase the motivation, but it does not last long. Remember! You are different with others. You are you, that has its own pros and cons. The biggest enemy is your own. Have we get what is best for you?
5. take another step
When you meet obstacles that long, You would assume you would never be able to through it. You may think You will be hard to achieve the dream of you. But this is precisely the difference between losers and winners. That is the COURAGE to continue again.
When you face a difficult situation, take one step forward. Don’t think how you finish. Don’t think how many obstacles that would hinder. Focus on the next step. And be a winner.
6. Stare at the future
Believe it or not, one of the things that reduce motivation is past experience. The past can be a severe beabn to step forward. But the burden should not bring. You should be able to meletakanya. You may have a big mistake in the past. However, you will not do anything to change the past, you have is now. Today is a new day. Not pedui how kelamnya past you. You still have a chance in the future. JIA YOU!
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